Archive for Life
And the birthday ends with a party
Posted by: | CommentsWell, Nicole’s birthday is pretty much over and it ended with a party, but not here. In a perfect example of her age, she went out to a friends house for her third boy/girl party in the past few months.
They grow up so fast
Posted by: | CommentsTwelve years ago today I was a father for the first time. I didn’t understand how much it would completely change my life, but boy have things changed. Monique and I gave up our freedom to be responsible adults; parents charged with raising a child, showing her the ins and outs of life.
Be careful about teaching your dog new tricks
Posted by: | CommentsWhen we adopted Twiggy, our 7-year-old Border Collie, earlier this year we knew the breed was smart and she lived up to the reputation. One thing that sticks in my mind now is something our vet told us about our last dog — never teach a Border Collie something you don’t want them to do for the rest of their lives. I wish I had of listened to that advice.
Boeing 747 plane crash kills seven in Halifax
Posted by: | CommentsWhen you turn on the television in the morning and see some sort of disaster, you are glued to events, sometimes for hours. It always seems so far away — volcanoes, earthquakes, floods, hurricanes or plane crashes, you feel bad for the people that it’s happening to, but you always think “I’m glad it didn’t happen here.”
Yesterday, I woke up to news that a 747 jumbo jet had crashed at the Halifax International Airport, about 10-15 minutes from my house. Luckily the jet was a cargo plane, so it wasn’t full of passengers, but it did have seven crew members on board — there were no survivors.
Apparently the tail of the plane snapped off during take-off, leaving the pilots totally unable to control the aircraft. The plane crashed into the woods seconds after liftoff, exploding into a fireball that reportedly lit up the early morning sky.
MK Airlines, have had four planes crash since 1990, but company officials said they wanted to concentrate on the families of this crash — fair enough, but we also have to know what the cause of the accident is.
“Utter Destruction” is how the crash site has been describe by witnesses. My sympathies go out to the families of the crash.
The Diary of Anne Frank
Posted by: | CommentsMonique and I have been very fortunate these past few years. We have been able to travel a little and see some really nice theatre performances. We have seen 42 St. on Broadway with Melanie Griffith and a very nice play in London, England when we were there two years ago. Neither one of those compares to The Diary of Anne Frank, a play we saw last weekend in Halifax.
The cast of the play did a terrific job, drawing you into the middle of the daily struggles that Anne and her family had to endure. The woman that played Anne was so believable — you were riveted by her every word, wondering what she was going to say, wondering what the next thing to happen to the family would be.
The stage was setup to look like the attic that the families had to live in for nearly two years. During the day they had to be quiet all day — no walking with shoes on, no talking, coughing, etc. — nothing that would alert the workers down below that someone was upstairs.
After two years of hiding from the Germans, someone told the Gestapo where the families were hiding. Anne and her family were taken to separate concentration camps, where all but Anne’s father died. After the war, Anne’s father returned to Amsterdam and was given the diary that Anne kept through the years of hiding. He allowed a few people to read the diary and it was eventually published.
We took our nine and 11 year old kids to see the play, hoping they would have a better understanding of what people had to go through during the war. Monique’s parents were 12 or 13 in Amsterdam when the Nazi’s invaded and last night at Thanksgiving dinner her father told us about when the Gestapo burst into their house and took his father away. His father was detained and put into a concentration camp, but he lived. I think between the play and the discussion at dinner, the kids got some real life experiences on World War II.
How old is old?
Posted by: | CommentsI had my 37 birthday a couple of weeks ago and something struck me: I don’t feel old. I remember my Mother telling me years ago that you are only as old as you feel and I’m begining to believe she is right. It’s a shame it took me this long to listen to her on this one, but it’s okay to still learn new things.
When I was 15, 25 was old; when I hit 25, 30 was old. Now that I’m past both of those markers, I see 60 or 70 as being old. I think I’m in a pretty unique situation that not many people find themselves in — I love my job, my wife, my kids, my dog, my family is great and besides debt, everything is going really good for me.
Is there a time when I will be too old to enjoy any of those things? I really don’t think so. I remember when I was in my late 20s and some of my friends werre freaking out because they were having their 30th birthday. When I turned 30, it was no big deal to me.
As I approach 40, the thing that I think about the most is how I looked at 40 year olds when I was 20 — I thought they were ancient, on their last legs, ready to die at any minute. Yet, here I am, and I am nowhere near dead.
I think as long as I keep enjoying what I am doing and have my family behind me, I will always be young.